LADIES, DON’T BE THE GAME, PLAY THE GAME!

I’m not a professional on this issue, so don’t quote me!

So I was speaking to one of my friends, one of the few guys I respect really and the discussion was about relationships. 

One thing led to the other and he said, "aww come on, I can’t marry a liability".

I was shocked. I mean I was stunned. I literarily didn't speak for a few seconds.

Ladies, look around you and take a deep deep breadth. How many of your female friends really want to go further than their basic education and make something of themselves?

 How many just want to find a “suitable” husband and settle down.

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How many are of the opinion that there is a rich man standing in one corner with an account load of money waiting to sweep them of their feet.

Statistics done?

Let’s get down basics.    

Regardless of your boyfriend or husband, you are a whole separate and complete entity. With rights to a dream, to a future, to a profession and to a career.(check! Guys also run from super career women)

You possess the uncanny power of being a super human.

 I mean you juggle a career and a family and you still come out on tops. So who says you cant be among the men in that round table conference.

Guys don’t just want a zombi. They want a lady that can carry on  reasonably intelligent conversation.

So, my suggestion? Know thyself!

What do you like?what do you effortlessly? what do you dislike? Make those into something,

Get ambitious with your future, and you can have your pick of intelligent dapper looking and successful blokes.

You determine the types of suitors that you get. Having said that, ladies, get in the game and don’t be the game!

Like i said earlier on, don't quote me.

Peace!